Smoking bans in apartments and condominiums.

Such ordinances have been passed in several Califormia cities, and a few large management companies have banned smoking in some of the apartments/condos they manage.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/05/us/05smoke.html?th&emc=th

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Well, I tell you what, my new downstairs neighbor smokes a LOT and it comes right up the stairwell and hangs there.  It's like coming home to a bar in the bad old days.  I really disagree with the idea that smoking should be banned within one's own home/apartment, but I think a smoker could be required make a bigger deposit (new carpet and paint, mm-hmm), and the unit needs to be vented to the outside so the third-floor residents don't have to smoke with him. 

What else won't you be able to do in your own home?

Arvid's picture

Apartments are different....it's not your own home, it's someone elses and you're borrowing it from them for a monthly fee.

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Arvid,

What you say is partially true, although your lease gives specific rights by which you can live. Trust me, your rent includes taxes, insurance, maintenance and all the other responsibilities of home ownership.

What is true is that the apartments are not the government's either. If a landlord wants to prohibit smoking, that is their choice (remember that word, you used it when you chose not to attend the blogger bash because it was going to be held in a smoking area). You don't want to live in a smoking apartment, then chose not to live there. Ask up front before you sign the lease and find out if you want to accept all those responsibilities with your rent, or look elsewhere for something that suits your needs. We don't need to call Naomi and Mike to help us with every living decision.

Once again our very very smart leadership know much more than the apartment owners and are imposing their will on them because of their enormous brain power.

Please, when will this stop?

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

Arvid's picture

Rex,

Right, it would be my choice to live in a smoke-free apartment or not. However, when a non-smoker lives in an apartment building, and three months afterward a smoker moves in downstairs or next door whose smoke comes through the "high-quality" walls/ventilation system, why should that original person have to deal with that for the next 9 months of their lease? My argument has always been that I don't care what you choose do do, so long as that choice does not directly impact others. This example shows that the choice to smoke is directly impacting the non-smoker.

So the choices they are left with, as you present it, are: deal with it for the next 9 months or try to break the lease and move out. I can't name a single landlord who would let someone out of their lease for that. Mr. Fuerst, would you let a tenant out of their lease because the actions of someone else are making their living conditions unpleasant? Even though they chose to live in a non-smoking apartment, that doesn't mean the actiosn of others will not change the living conditions. People are cited for noise violations that go beyond their apartment walls, I see this as being very similar.

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Bettycat,

You are right on point with your suggestion concerning HVAC changes that could be made to improve the conflicts between smoking areas and non-smoking areas. Instead of passing a sledge hammer law and imposing the will of the legislators immediately and at great cost to the apartment owners, pass legislation that preserves the right of choice, the rights associated with the ownership of property and the rights to make decisions concering your health.

Pass legislation that causes any new buildings after a certain date (maybe 3-4 years, to allow for financial planning) to make provision for smoking and non-smoking living quarters. At the same time pass legislation that gives apartment owner's tax credits for altering existing buildings, IF THEY CHOOSE. But after a certain date, require that even older buildings must be either all smoking or non-smoking if no proper alterations to the HVAC systems are constructed.

Everybody retains their rights. You can choose to live in a smoking enviroment or a non-smoking enviroment. Owners can alter their financial planning to include improvements or simply to cater to one or the other tennant. Future construction has its requirements clearly stated and allows for financial planning should an owner want to build more or re-construct on existing property.

The owners can adjust rents accordingly and make improvement funds for smoking issues defined by government out of those rent adjustments.

Those solutions do not impose government on anyone and allow for choice over a proper time frame.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

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Arvid,

I agree, that sometimes we get caught by unforseen circumstances, but if you are a smoker, the shoe also falls the other way. However, landlords are very sensitive to health issues (and noise issues) and are open to many suggestions that may help with a short term solution.

For instance, if the smoking is a genuine problem and must be addressed, then how about working out some kind of deal where the landlord considers supplying a portable filter system. Many good systems are on the market and work effectively for short term solutions. The landlord may supply it completely at his expense and thereby benefit from the tax credits, or he may split the cost with the tennant and with a purchase option available to both at the end of the lease. Or maybe some other solution.

Many solutions are available and NONE involve Naomi or Mike, they only involve owners and tennants. Owners make their living by providing attactive living spaces and usually will do what ever is necessary to maintain that appearance.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

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Mr. Fuerst, would you let a tenant out of their lease because the actions of someone else are making their living conditions unpleasant?

It depends upon the circumstances, but more likely not than so.    However, as whenever a tenant wants to terminate a lease early, I would help and advise them in finding a substitute tenant, and screen potential substitute tenants.        A clause in my lease states:  "Occupants will not disturb, and are responsible for insuring that their visitors and guests do not disturb the quiet enjoyment of other building and neighborhood residents."     I could probably invoke that clause against a smoker, requiring him/her not to smoke in the apartment.

The issue concerning cigarette smoke has not come up for me.     

However, a year or two ago a tenant complained about being able to smell another tenant's marijauna smoke.    The marijauna smoking tenant stopped doing so in the apartment when informed of the problem.

Michael Fuerst

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... pass legislation that gives apartment owners' tax credits for altering existing buildings, IF THEY CHOOSE.

I doubt governments should forego revenue by such legislation.

But after a certain date, require that even older buildings must be either all smoking or non-smoking if no proper alterations to the HVAC systems are constructed.

That is really a non-law.    By default, a building is smoking.  Even today, any owner can include a lease clause prohibiting the use of tobacco or other smoking products in a building.

 

Michael Fuerst

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For instance, if the smoking is a genuine problem and must be addressed, then how about working out some kind of deal where the landlord considers supplying a portable filter system.

I can't see why an owner would want to pay any share of such a system.   Instead a law could require the landlord to provide this if a requested by a tenant affected by another tenant's smoking inside the building.   

Michael Fuerst

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Mjerry,

In reverse order to your resonses:

Owners would consider paying for those systems because doing so would discourage government from SHOVING such laws down their throat. The second part of my response is the key, consider cooperative sharing of the costs between the landlord and tennant, then both benefit.

The landlord doesn't hear the complaining, and the tennant doesn't smell smoke and may want to buy the landlords share because he likes having the filter wherever moves to next. If the landlord buys it, he can reuse it and extend the same offer to the next tennant without such a capital outlay. (As I said, there are probably other solutions that would solve the problem and not involve government, either)

What never gets asked in the legistative discussions when such things as "require the landlord to provide this" are considered is:

"Why do we want to raise the rents of every tennant to purchase these things?"

because that is what is going to happen, landlords do not simply "eat" these forced costs (unfunded mandate), they just raise rents to pay for them. (Can you spell Urbana Renter's Protection)

Next:

It is not a non-law, after a certain date buildings that make no HVAC improvements (old buildings) are listed as allowing both non smokers or smokers (a smoking building) or not allowing any smoking (a non-smoking building). There is no default, instead of investing in HVAC equipment, the owner makes a business choice as to whom they will cater.

Then, from the tennants viewpoint, if non-smokers chose to enjoy living with smokers because of personal reasons, then so be it. But non-smokers like arvid, can clearly chose an older building that is listed as non-smoking only, without concern. (or all groups can choose to live in buildings that have properly adjusted HVAC improvements)

"doubting governments" are exactly the problem. The present day governments believe that any type of credit would not be incentive to upgrade old facilities, when actually what they are saying is,

"if you want to upgrade at your own expense, then fine, raise rents and do so" and if you don't then don't.

Supposedly the no smoking government philosophy is to have government prevent people from endangering their health by smoking (take us to raise). OK if that is the reason for government doing it, then do it in a manner that encourages the property owners to MAKE A CHOICE, receive a benefit from the government, and help tennant's have a better living enviroment while still being able to enjoy the company of others with an unhealthy addiction. The tax credit allows the landlords to take the tax relief money, make the improvements and NOT have to raise the rent.

Thanks for your responses and the blog, as I said above, it is those kind of responses that cause us to use our gray matter for something besides coloring our hair and beards and maybe even recognize and suggest solutions that our esteemed political leaders may read and take credit for. (sorry for the dangling participle)

Governments need to recognize that hammers are not the only tool to build things from, sometimes a mixture of glue works just as well and only requires the mixing of less forceful ingredients.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

mjerryfuerst's picture

 

Tenant has one "n".

Owners would consider paying for those systems because doing so would discourage government from SHOVING such laws down their throat.

I do not believe owner would do this for the reason you state.     I would prefer government to prohibit smoking in apartments, in which case I would not woury about retrofitting any apartments.

 

The second part of my response is the key, consider cooperative sharing of the costs between the landlord and tennant, then both benefit.

I doubt many tenants will contribute to such

 

Michael Fuerst

I think sex between black people should be banned in condos and apartments.

IlliniPundit's picture

"I think sex between black people should be banned in condos and apartments."

I thought about deleting this, and then decided that leaving it up as an illustration of the power of idiocy was probably better.

RexBradfield's picture

Smoking is legal, it is legal to purchase tobacco.

If government says people who smoke cannot live in apartments, where do they live? The greatest majority of people in this area live in apartments, and many of that majority smoke.

If government does not want people to smoke, then why don't they prohibit tobacco? That would solve everything.

Wait, I I have heard that argument before and I think it was for something else. I will remember it soon, I am sure.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

Arvid's picture

 

If government says people who smoke cannot live in apartments, where do they live? The greatest majority of people in this area live in apartments, and many of that majority smoke.

Rex, you're twisting the statement here.  It doesn't say you can't live in apartment if you smoke, it says you can't smoke in the apartment, and that if you want to smoke you'll need to take it ouside of property you do not own and will be occupied by someone else in relative short order (compared to home ownership, anyway)

A subset of the "greatest majority" (whatever that means) is not a majority in of itself.  You're talking in very vague numbers here that are most likely significantly lower than you think.

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Arvid,

Nothing inconvenient about that, just go outside and smoke. Instead of having a cigarette in your pajamas right before bed, put on your coat go outside and have a cigarette in a blizzard. I wonder what other freedoms of choice we can trample on.

What is wrong with making some apartments for smokers and some not? It is a business decision and if Mjerry, does not want to do that, it is his choice. If you did not want to attend a meeting because of smoking, that is your choice. But to suggest that if someone wants to smoke at their living quarters, the government should not allow it, what is going on?

Allow me to rephrase, the majority of the population in the Champaign-Urbana area, including students live in apartments or in rental housing. Try campaigning and knocking on doors it won't take you long to realize that. So, most of the people who live in those houses and smoke, will probably like to make a different choice in who they choose to elect, should they be required to go outside their own living quarters to feed a habit.

It only took Champaign, the first term of elections to send that signal, and I sure would not vote for anyone who made me go outside my home to smoke. Yes, the apartment is their home, someone else's property, but their home while they live there.

What do you think about prohibiting the sale of tobacco, that would solve all the problems?

Personally, I find finger nail chewing is bad for your health and I would like to have all chewer's go outside and chew also. If government wants to trample on that choice...stomp on.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

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Rex, you're still not getting it and I don't think you ever will, since it pokes major holes in what you think you know about those of us who support smoking bans.  Let me reiterate this for you:

Proponents of smoking bans for the most part don't give a crap about what you do to yourself.  If you want to smoke and cause massive health problems for yourself, more power to you.  However, when that choice of yours impacts the choices of others, then we have a problem. 

I take it you must not live in an apartment, haven't for a very long time, or you must have not knocked on all that many apartment doors, otherwise you'd know exactly how the choices of tenants in one unit cause problems for tenants in another.

Let's just agree to disagree because you just don't get it.  You'd rather paint this as "Big Bad Government" stomping on the "poor, downtrodden smokers", rather than what is really going on.  This is why you weren't electable and we chose to send Naomi back to Springfield; your opinions don't match those of the constituents and you only go off of your pre-conceived notions rather than what the public wants.

Personally, I find finger nail chewing is bad for your health and I would like to have all chewer's go outside and chew also.

I have felt the same way for many years.    Please  (a) write a letter to the editor advocating this, and (b) make a presentation to the city councils requesting ordinances to prohibit nail biting.

Rex,

I read your solution outlined above about how to retrofit buildings with HVAC equipment and other very costly measures.  To help defer the costs to the landlord, you proposed various tax incentives.  First of all, waht makes smokers so special that the tax payers should bankroll the upgrades to these buildings?  Secondly, the tax incentives you propose creates more work for the government, which in turn means bigger governemnt.  I thought you supported smaller governemnt?

You have come up with a very complex solution, but as an engineer, are you not familiar with the KISS principle? (Keep It Simple, Stupid.  No offense intended, that's just the way it was explained to me.)  It seems to me that the simple answer here is to require smoking outside of multi-dweller housing units.

Oil Man's picture

The government should stay out of this completely.  This is strictly a market driven issue.  If more renters require 'non-smoking' appartments, landloads will comply.  Same market driven regulations can be applied to condos.  PLEASE NO MORE GOVERNMENT CONTROL.

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Anonymous,

Wouldn't that be fun. I might consider it, but God, they may do it. Imagine all the kids who will be in jail for biting their nails.

Arvid,

Trust me I get it, not sure you understand the difference between the need for government involvement and the need for taking care of your own life by your choices.

As you said:

"when that choice of yours impacts the choices of others, then we have a problem"

Apparently that is the criteria.

Let me give you an couple of examples of necessary government involvement and solutions that did not involve a "Club"

1. There are three highways of the same length, size. One is dirt, one is asphalt and one is concrete, they lead from point A to point B. Point A is a residential area and point B is a factory. No matter the highway you choose you get to work at the same time and expense.

All Highways allow any vehicle to lawfully use them.

You are a person who drives a car and use all the highways to get to work everyday. Your car is legal and has always been legal. Your neighbor, on the other hand, drives a tractor to work every day. The tractor is legal and he has been driving it for all his life, he is just addicted to tractors.

Now tractors are big and slow and dangerous to your health should you run into one. They are dirty and historically considered dangerous to the person driving them. More people are killed by tractors on farms than any other implement.

Every morning, you make a choice to drive one of the highways, and you always encounter one of those big, ugly and dangerous tractors, so you complain to government.

You complain that your neighbor is making choices and "that choice of yours (the neighbor) impacts the choices of others (you), then we (you) have a problem."

Now government has many options:

1. They can completely ban tractors. That will solve the problem and make you very happy, but it creates the possibility of other problems, because many people like and are addicted to driving tractors. Someone might make a lot of money selling illegal tractors and you would still have the problem of tractors showing up on the three highways. The tried that with fast cars and it turned out everyone liked a fast car now and then and legal businesses who sold fast cars lost their business, but illegal businesses showed up and made a ton of money selling fast cars and weren't paying taxes on the sales.

2. They can ban you from driving on the roads. After all they were using tractors before they were using cars. But that creates a problem for you going to work and your choice to use a car was legal before you complained. Why should you be punished because you don't like tractors?

3. They can ban tractors from every road, even though one road is dirt and you have no business there with your car anyway. They can only drive tractors 15 miles from any of these roads and in areas that are not necessarily made for tractors. But that would be imposing a significant change and expense to all those owning tractors. Takes them longer to get to work, etc. They were legal one day and the next day, they were not. They lost a basic right to choose. Why should they be punished because they happen to like tractors?

4. They can make one road for cars only and ban tractors from that road at all times. They can make one road available to both cars and tractors, with signs posted that slower and heavy tractors may be on this road and be careful. They can make one road for tractors only because it is dirt and cars have no business there anyway.

Government correctly chose the last option and made Interstate Highways for cars only, local highways for both cars and tractors and dirt roads in rural area or woods for tractors or other large vehicles. Instead of dramatically restricting the choices of the tractor owners, government chose to simply allow choices of highways and transportation. Even to those who drive ugly and dangerous tractors.

Although, it was never disputed that tractors were dangerous. It was also true that everyone has a choice and could continue with their life style and choice of transportation with minor limitations to the choices.

I don't think I need to expand on the similarities.

Incidentally, arvid both my brother and sister died from cancer related illnesses caused by smoking. I wished for all my life that they did not smoke, but I liked them just the same. So I would appreciate you not lecturing me on poor downtrodden smokers. Trust me, if anyone had a reason to support not smoking, it was me. But as my brother said, I know it is bad for me, but I like it and choose to smoke. May he and Shirl rest in peace.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

Oil Man's picture

The way your highway example started out Rex, I thought you were talking about former rural Illinois roads to/from  grain elevators. 

....is it just me, or was this EXACT scenario EXPLICITLY deemed "too outlandish to consider", vocally, publicly and often, not even a year ago, back when we were debating whether or not there was a slippery slope of government imposition regarding smoking in CU bars?

And now we're actually having a serious discussion about it?

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Oil Man,

So you have driven to the elevators on those roads too. LOL.... the worst part was hoping the wagons did not start to whip.

LOL...too good. thanks.

Hey, I know this is out of place in the blogs, but thanks for understanding the FutureGen issue. I appreciated your comments, they were right on my point.

Big Brother,

Nope, in that scenario, the Government chose Option #3

Option 4 is in the Rules of the road, and exists today.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

Rex:

I wasn't explicitly pointing to your scenarios...just the entire concept of whether or not smoking should be banned in apartments at all.

It's kind of sad that that point has been completely overlooked, so much so that my comment was misinterpretted.

We might want to be a little more cynical when someone says "Oh, don't even bring up that slippery slope of a push to ban smoking in cars, single-family houses, public parks and sidewalks...that'll never happen!"

eggs ackley's picture

As reported by CNN on 11/20/2007:

Top 10 worst states for small business

 Washington DC, New Jersey, California, Rhode Island, Maine, New York, Minnesota, Massachusetts, Vermont, Hawaii. All of these state legislatures have passed state-wide smoking bans already in effect or to go into effect soon.

Top 10 best states for small business

South Dakota,  Nevada, Wyoming, Washington, Florida, Michigan, Texas, South Carolina, Virginia and Alabama. None of these states except Nevada (partial), and Washington have state-wide smoking bans.

I doubt that there is any pending legislation to seize any more private property rights in the top ten states. It's evident that the legislators in the states in the lowest ten are certain what's best for their constituents. Businesses considering locating in those states probably think differently.

 

 

Washington DC is not a state.

Rex,

That was a very long, detailed example about tractors, cars and roads.  It sounds like an awful lot of government regulation.  Less government means exactly that, not more government by overly complex rules and regulations.  I say get the government out of there and let the tractors and the cars share one road instead of building a different road for every special interest type of vehicle!

PLEASE NO MORE GOVERNMENT CONTROL, (can I get an, "Amen!" Oil Man?)

eggs ackley's picture

Washington DC is not a state.

Well, shame on the Small Business and Entrepreneurship Council. Nine states and a district.

"Well, shame on the Small Business and Entrepreneurship Council. Nine states and a district."

I pointed out that Washington DC is not a state, because I wondered, A) what is the 10th state which is bad for small businesses and B) whether or not that state has a statewide smoking ban.

That's all.

Oil Man's picture

A small 'amen' as I actually am very fond of control.  Must be all those old U of I math and engineering classes finally having an impact.  I even like Government controls like speed limits, traffic lights & signs (although I personnally hate the continued overuse of STOP signs).  I even want more Government control over ground and surface water souces, emissions, pollution & standards.  

What I object to is most legislative efforts by our local, state and federal politicians who continue to establish government controls to payoff their "political debt" incurred to get elected and/or stay on the public payroll. 

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Viper,

Not sure you completely understood the intent of my example. I am really not for government interfering in areas where a personal choice allows an individual to avoid a dangerous situation. But, like Oil Man, I am for government controls where necessary to prevent harm to another individual because the choices are limited for that individual.

For instance, speed limits are necessary because speed increases the severity of accidents, and we all must use the roads. We have no choice, so government limits speed thereby protecting required usage from the effects of another action. Government is limiting excesses in that instance. We still can choose any road we want, but speeding is not allowed, and that is cool with both Oil Man and myself.

Another does actually concern smoking. I agree that government should ban smoking in places like nursing homes, hospitals, schools, driver's license facilities and government offices. The reason is that we do not have a choice if we are in a nursing home or visiting a nursing home. We do not have a choice if we need to go to a hospital or visit someone in a hospital. We do not have a choice about going to a drivers license facility to get our license renewed. We do not have a choice if we go into a government office, we have to obtain government information from those offices and often that information is required for something. If we are required to do something or cannot avoid it, then government should protect us from the effects of smoking in those area. Not only is that the right thing to do, it is also the gentlemanly thing to do.

But banning speed on private race tracks, is not something government should be doing. We choose to visit those tracks and either watch or participate in driving at excessive speed. If we do not want to speed, then we choose not to visit those private race tracks. It is our choice and our entire society is based on freedom of choice.

And in the same breath, banning smoking in private establishments is not something government should be doing. We choose to visit places that allow smoking because of choice. If we do not want to visit places which allow smoking we simply choose not to visit them. Businesses will sort out the clientele to which they want to cater. All we do is pick the business that caters to us.

For instance, I do not like real gambling. I think gambling is a vice that is dangerous to both a person's health, and financial health and family well being. Gambling and smoking are legal in Illinois, but instead of asking our State to make gambling illegal and deny all those who, unlike me, like gambling the choice of gambling. I simply do not visit places that allow gambling.

My personal opinion is gambling is bad for mental, physical and family health. But I do not have the right to limit peoples choice for imbibing in that vice. And never would.

Hope that helps clarify, the position. I feel the same about the smoking in apartment buildings see above.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

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To November 23rd, 2007 at 06:32 PM, RexBradfield

The arguments in your post logically  reflect your values and philosophy which many obviously do not share.   

However consider the application of your arguments to the following two scenarios"

Scenario 1:   In some older buildings smoking in one apartment can be detected in other apartments.    If air can circulate among a set of apartments, then either (i) smoking in apartments among which air can circulate should be banned by the government or owner, or  (b) the owner must be required to disclose, before signing a lease with a new tenant, that shared air circulation with other apartments might result in detectable cigarette smoke in the apartment about to be rented.

Scenario 2:     Credit card companies now contain a provision such that if a person has a late payment on an unrelated account (e.g. a different credit card or mortgage), then the credit card company can raise the interest rate on their account with the person.     It seems that government should prohibit interest rate changes based on a late payment on unrelated accounts.

Michael Fuerst

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Michael,

(that ananomyous comment was a hard to understand, comment wasn't it)

I am not sure of your point, seriously. I am missing something? I think, you, Oil man and myself are on the same page, just reading a different paragraph. Please help.

My previous posts never suggested banning of smoking by the government if other solutions such as HVAC improvements were available. But I did and always have suggested, the owner has the right to choose what ever solution he/she believes will benefit his/her rental business. Those solutions include his/her right to ban smoking in his property.

I am a non-smoker and I do think, the notification of possible smoke is not intrusive on the owner's rights and is only good business. I, like arvid, would really be upset if I signed a long term lease and then found out about the smoke intrusion, especially if the owner knew of it. That type of omission does fall under arvids statement of:

"However, when that choice of yours impacts the choices of others, then we have a problem. " above. In my highway example, those would be truck crossing, or deer crossing signs.

Remember the famous quote..." What did they know, and when did they know it?" Seems applicable.

And for scenario 2....don't get me started on banks. My grand daughter is a senior in high school who works Subway to get spending money and save a little. She got a charge from her bank of $5 because she was not depositing enough money into her savings account.

Need I say more?

In summary, I, like oil man, do not have problems with proper government actions to protect the general public from unavoidable situations. Businesses do not have a problem with proper government interventions if they are well conceived and do not trample on the rights of others or themselves when other less invasive solutions exist. In engineering, we call the invasive solutions "end conditions". In my tractor example, 2 & 3 are end conditions, they are considered, but never used.

Consider this. Stock cars can be designed in such a manner that they can allow the driver to crash at speeds in excess of 200 mph and walk away. Obviously the technology to reduce traffic accident fatalities to nearly 0 is available. Why doesn't government mandate all automobiles should be constructed in such a manner? (Stock cars are the upper end condition, paper cars would be the lower end condition)

Two reasons,.....Political........and Choice.

Political - Car manufacturer's could buy a politician though contributions that would vote against such economic hardship.

Choice - I can't say like choosing a vehicle that I know may not stand up to a severe crash, but I can choose to do the best I can to limit the effects by choosing a sturdy vehicle.

We don't live in a perfect world, but the world of choice is far better than other options. I think I would have hopped a ride on the Mayflower too.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

You know, I actually want to quit smoking.

On the other hand, when the people at Truth (whadafxup) stand on their soapbox and scold the smokers and tobacco companies, it makes me want to double my smoking and pump the 2nd hand smoke strait into their houses.

Same goes for the violent anti-smoking folks in CU.

Welcome to progressive society - we can talk down to you, because we know better than you what's good for you.

Treat smokers just like any other person with a differing point of view, and we can have a conversation. Act like an IMCista, you'll get tuned out.

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CU

Well, that might be a tad over reacting, but God it is funny.

Incidentally, here is a method to quit smoking that has worked for everyone that I know who has tried it.

If you are a 2 pak a day smoker, on the first day buy 2 paks and smoke them.

On the 2nd day buy 2 paks and remove 1 cigarette (save it) and smoke the rest.

On the 3rd day buy 3 paks and remove 2 cigarettes (save them) and smoke the rest.

and so on and so forth until you are just using the ones you have saved and the last day you are done.

Actually most who try that stop 5 or so short of making the last one, and just quit then.

Hope that works.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield

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Hey there CU area smoker

Humorous, yes, but oh, how I hear you!  I struggled with the same thing for ever so long. I hate being told what to do, and I sure don't want to ever be mistaken for one of "them." 

A thirty-plus year smoker here, and two months ago yesterday was my first day sans cigarettes. Incidentally, I'm married to a heavy smoker and I spend a good deal of time in a smoking bar. No problems. I'm sure it helps that I've got several friends who have recently quit and a few more who are looking toward a quit date.  

So if you find yourself in a space where you really, really do want to quit, meet me at MOM's and I can hook you up with the coolest quit-smoking support group you'll ever find. No judgment allowed. :)

Rex,

Food for thought. We'd all love cars that are engineered to withstand 200 mph impact, and be able to walk away.....

BUT that car would cost more than a Cadillac Escalade fully loaded.... and who "in their right mind" drives 200 mph? Other than on a closed track...

And, those of us who like to buy "slightly used" cars have found that being in an accident where the air bags deploy, even thought the actual damage might be easily repaired....with the cost of repacking/replacing the air bags.... make the insurance company call the car "totalled"...an if you've been in that situation you know that the insurance settlement rarely covers tha "actual" replcement cost.

 

Sorry, got off the smoking issue.... I agree with those who say,"I'd like to quit, but negative reinforcement is not the answer" and btw neither is positive reinforcement when applied condecendingly!!

"Instant gratifications" are best repulsed when the individual internalizes the rewards of "delayed gratifcation". Rewards and punishments from the outside are seen as "bribes" and "invasions"... and the inner self then instinctually wants to fight them...   "Lead a horse to water" kinda thing...

I'd also agree that apartment seekers DESERVE Full Disclosure, of smoke invasion from neighboring apartments....

But  also "caveat emptor"  too...if the place you rent doesn't have seperate furnace and AC for each unit...what do you expect? If you can hear the neighbors talking on the phone when you look at a place, don't wonder why you can hear their TV or stereo later.

When you go to buy a house with water marks around the basement, or ceiling jacks, you can't complain, after closing, that you were duped into thinking the basement doesn't flood and the floor doesn't have structural issues. EYES WIDE OPEN  folks.. The buyer/renter has responsibilities too!! A $400 apartment in a $700 area/market should force one to ask WHY? Obviously there is a downside. You can't demand $1500 a month amenities for $400 a month rent..

In other words....You get what you pay for..

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Thanks Property,

Because of my profession, I am sure you know I was fully aware of those cost issues and understand, I was making an extreme point. And I am sure you also are aware that if a car will protect you in a 200 mph crash, it certainly will protect you in a crash with lesser velocity energy.

Yep, I knew that about the air bags. Didn't find it out personally, but had a friend who did not disconnect his air bag on his snow plow operation vehicle. An expensive lesson.

Bravo for you other observations, we are certainly on the same page. Thanks for your well thought out and described post. I am sure Michael will echo my appreciation of good posts.

To that end, I am, and shall always remain;
Rex Bradfield